10.28.2009 | Posted by: Amor

Thoughts on Puerto Peñasco

A Mission Trip leader shares his thoughts…

In evaluating our recent trip to Puerto Peñasco, Sonora, Mexico, some thoughts have gone through my mind as to why we go on the Amor Mission Trip anyway.

My 16 year old son, who plays football, brought home his helmet to adjust. On the back of the helmet I noticed a warning label which included some intense cautions. “Keep your head up–Don’t spear with this helmet…failure to follow these rules can result in severe neck injury, paralysis, brain trauma or fatal brain injury.” These warnings were followed by a capitalized statement that said: “IF YOU WANT TO AVOID THESE RISKS, DO NOT ENGAGE IN THE GAME OF FOOTBALL.”

Likewise, there are risks involved in a mission trip to Mexico. But weighing the risks against the benefits of building God’s Kingdom keeps me wanting to do more. I understand the dynamics of working with the parents of students and I must honor their wishes when it comes to caring for their children. The safety of our students is priority. Challenging our students and teaching Christ’s mandate to be witnesses around the world requires constant tension.

This year, the violence continued to raise major unease in Juarez. Our parents expressed their concern for safety issues. In discussion with Amor, they opened up the opportunity to go to Puerto Peñasco. Most of our parents were excited about the opportunity and felt comfortable with the change. The change of location proved to be an awesome opportunity to serve our neighbors. The poverty issues were much the same. Unemployment at 70% as the tourism based economy was hit hard by the travel warnings, Puerto Peñasco is in desperate need of the church’s help. We can be tools of His Kingdom assisting the local church to meet the ever present needs surrounding them.

Amor is making a major impact on this city through the local church – and the community is eager to be involved also. Ministry opportunities are plentiful in this city. We were able to visit a couple of the local church ministries including a free health clinic and a radio station. Other ministries include food pantries, clothing banks, children’s programs, etc. We wish we could have gotten more involved in them, but time did not permit on this trip.

Yes, there are risks involved! But at no time did I even feel any danger while on this trip. The border crossing was uneventful. The Church and the community welcomed us with open arms. It was hot! (That may be a slight understatement!) We worked from 6-12 in the mornings and just a couple hours in the evenings to complete the houses in plenty of time. Some did get sick with the flu (we brought along with us) and the heat was a challenge. Along with this, the usual smashed thumbs, minor cuts, blisters, sunburns and bruises persisted.

My point: IF YOU WANT TO AVOID THESE RISKS, STAY HOME! “As for me and my house, we will serve the Lord!”

Steve

10.27.2009 | Posted by: jon

Here is the current South Africa plan…

We are opening up two week: July 24 – August 7.
We need 150 participants, 75 each week to make both weeks happen.
Cost is $600 a person which provides everything but airfare and the day excursion.

Contact ladonna@amor.org with questions

10.22.2009 | Posted by: jon

Photo of the Week

Photo taken by Andrew Flavin. Puerto Peñasco, Mexico

Photo taken by Andrew Flavin. Puerto Peñasco, Mexico

If you have a photograph from an Amor Mission Trip that you would like to see as our Photo of the Week, please email it to jon@amor.org .

10.21.2009 | Posted by: jon

Feast On Your Life

It’s not easy to slow down life. I’m as guilty as anyone. The normal ‘North American Sprint’ often becomes just the way we move in and out of everyday life. The hustle and bustle of family life, business, ‘to do’ lists, instant information in a myriad of media formats, and a fast-food culture can keep us racing from one thing to the next. In our racing from Point A to Point B, we can find ourselves moving into autopilot mode and losing small slivers of our true selves along the way.

I was first introduced to this poem through Parker Palmer’s book A Hidden Wholeness. Palmer shares these words as part of a slowing down process to connect back to “the seed of true self”. The poem is “Love After Love” by Derek Wolcott:

The time will come
when, with elation,
you will greet yourself arriving
at your own door, in your own mirror,
and each will smile at the other’s welcome,
and say, sit here. Eat.
You will love again the stranger who was your self.
Give wine. Give bread. Give back your heart
to itself, to the stranger who has loved you
all your life, whom you ignored
for another, who knows you by heart.
Take down the love letters from the bookshelf,
the photographs, the desperate notes,
peel your own image from the mirror.
Sit. Feast on your life.

Today, in the midst of a racing world and plenty of bags that we think we ought to claim, I hope to give myself a few minutes to slow down and feast on my life. Somehow I know this will deliver more wholeness to the journey between Point A and Point B.

“But Jesus often withdrew to lonely places and prayed.” – Luke 5:16

Travel Gracefully.

Jason Barger, 11-time Amor leader and author of the book, Step Back from the Baggage Claim:  Change the World, Start at the Airport

10.13.2009 | Posted by: Amor

Author and Perfecter

“Strip down, start running and never quit.  No extra spiritual fat, no parasitic sins.  Keep your eyes on Jesus, who both began and finished this race we’re in.  Study how he did it.  Because he never lost sight of where he was headed—that exhilarating finish in and with God—he could put up with anything along the way: Cross, shame, whatever.  And now he’s there, in the place of honor, right alongside of God.” – Hebrews 12:2 (MSG)

Today, we take each person’s spiritual life in the Ministry seriously, but it wasn’t always that way.  Sure, we had a fall Bible study and we prayed daily for the Ministry but as I look back, we were going through the motions—that is until we had a study on the book of Romans.  You can’t study Romans without looking at what “righteousness” is and isn’t.

During that time, I began praying that God would reveal the unrighteousness within the Ministry.  When He did, it wasn’t pretty!  In fact, it began with Scott and me.  We realized that we didn’t have our finger on the pulse of the spiritual life of those serving with us.

We made assumptions, many of which were wrong.  We assumed that because we are in a ministry that serves the Church, that everyone working with us would be just as committed to their local church.  We also trusted that the lives our staff lived while away from the Ministry reflected the words of Christian character as set in their job descriptions.

When I began to confront these issues and others, I was met with great resistance in particular by those that were being held accountable for their behavior. As a result, I was not very popular.  Most were either mad at me because I was perceived as unfair to them personally, or felt I was being unfair to a fellow teammate.  Eventually, someone had the courage to come tell me what people were saying about me.

Although these “little foxes” of sin were not horrible, we all know that it doesn’t take much to bring down a ministry.  Regardless, Scott and I felt we hadn’t given all these years of our lives to see the Ministry destroyed by a lack of accountability.

It was during this time that I became the Chief Spiritual Officer of Amor Ministries.  Though it wasn’t a promotion with a pay increase, this change was about dealing with the issues at hand and about developing a strategy so that spiritual life would take center stage.This is how our yearly scripture themes became our annual focus and is why the theme is often reflected on the shirt we give each participant.  If you follow us closely, then you usually know our topic because I refer to it on a regular basis.

[If you can name the themes from the last five years, you can win a free trip with us!  Hint: Last year’s topic was taken from Revelation 3:16.  Remember that whole lukewarm thing with the Church in Laodicea? NOTE: First person to respond will receive a waived participation fee.]

The idea of a new theme has been on my mind as I considered that next year we will celebrate 30 years of ministry, especially in light of this past year and all the challenges we have faced.  And I got some incredible advice from a beloved friend of the Ministry, Dan Kuban.  Our dear brother has pancreatic cancer and yet still had time to assist me in setting the course of study that would become a part of our spiritual life during this anniversary year!

Our scripture from Hebrews 12:2 in the NIV says, “let us throw off everything that hinders and the sin that so easily entangles, and let us run with perseverance the race marked out for us.  Let us fix our eyes on Jesus, the author and perfecter of our faith who for the joy set before him endured the cross, scorning its shame, and sat down at the right hand of the throne of God.”

Fix our eyes on Jesus.  When I look back over that period in the Ministry when our spiritual pulse wasn’t quite right, I get a big pit in my stomach.  I think about all that was at stake and how close we came to the edge.  More importantly, I feel responsible.  Yet, the one that started and finished the same race that we are in, never took His eyes off of us.  It took time, but we turned things around.

Today, we have an intentional spiritual life strategy that is woven into the fiber of our existence as a Ministry.  This year, together we will study the one who did it and never lost sight of where He was headed—that exhilarating finish line in and with God!  Join us on this spiritual journey and together, we can face any challenges we find along the way!  This past year is certainly proof of this.

By Gayla Congdon, Founder and CSO of Amor Ministries

Read more by Gayla by clicking here.

10.12.2009 | Posted by: jon

Photo of the Week

Photo by Kurt Blake of Huntington Beach, CA

Photo by Kurt Blake of Huntington Beach, CA

If you have a photograph from an Amor Mission Trip that you would like to see as our Photo of the Week, please email it to jon@amor.org .

10.06.2009 | Posted by: jon

Agua Y Vida (Water and Life)

Pastor Jose Luis leads the Amor Team delivering water filtration systems to families and training them in their use.

Pastor Jose Luis leads the Amor Team delivering water filtration systems to families.

Pastor Jose Luis Assembles the water filter and instructs on its use and maintainance.

Pastor Jose Luis assembles the water filter and instructs on its use and maintenance.

It is this simple: Dirty water....

It is this simple: Dirty water....

...becomes clean, potable water...

...becomes clean, potable water...

...which is one less thing for this family to worry about.

...which is one less thing for this family to worry about.

Give the gift of Clean Water For Life.

10.05.2009 | Posted by: jon

Photo of the Week

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If you have a photograph from an Amor Mission Trip that you would like to see as our Photo of the Week, please email it to jon@amor.org .

10.02.2009 | Posted by: Amor

Finding Family in Far Away Places: The Story of the Barrasa Alvarez Tigard Family

I looked down the thirty-foot slope of dirt and rock, I saw six-year-old Casandra looking up at me from the doorway of her families two month old home. I waved with a grin on my face. “Hola!” I said. She smiled and her eyes widened as she scrambled inside to get her mother. I was greeted at the front door with a big hug from Maria. She has a way of smiling with her whole face, full of love. Excited, Maria invited us in to see what she had done with her home.

Jose and Maria’s beautiful double house custom built with a step down slab to accommodate for a large, immovable stone.

Jose and Maria’s beautiful double house custom built with a step down slab to accommodate for a large, immovable stone.

The week of July 20th, I had the blessing of leading an eager crew from Tigard Christian Church in Tigard, Oregon up the rough and windy, dirt road to Jose and Maria Barrasa Alvarez’s property in the community of Colinas del Florido. They live on the east side of Tijuana out in the hills near the Amor Ministries main camp. We would be building a double house (22’x22’) for their family of five who were currently living in a one-room plywood shack. Their little stove was about one foot away from Jose and Maria’s bed, and every time it rained, water would wash down the steep hill that their property is on, under their walls, and across the dirt and rock floor of their home. Not an ideal place to raise three children of 14, six, and five years of age.

From the road where we parked our vehicles, their existing structure was about 100 feet up a precarious slope of dirt and small stones. Further up the hill was a flat area that Jose built to accommodate there new home. Because of the grade of their property, Jose had to build a wall that was approximately ten feet tall out of stones that he broke out of the mountain with a sledge and steel rod. He told me it took him six months to build the wall by himself and that his family had been waiting about eight months or so to receive an Amor house.The next four days were characterized by hard work, patience, and lots of quality-time shared by the family and the Tigard crew. Helping me that week was Linz Snyder, a Nexus intern, who led the way in befriending and engaging the Barrasa Alvarez family.

This is the system we created to move all of our sand and gravel down the 30 foot slope on slab day! Just one of the obstacles we overcame that week. I called it the via rapida after a road in TJ.

This is the system we created to move all of our sand and gravel down the 30 foot slope on slab day! Just one of the obstacles we overcame that week. I called it the via rapida after a road in TJ.

On the first day, we spent hours trying to break stones that were elevating the back edge of the form. We ended the day with half of the slab poured and the second half of the form not quite finished. We ended up deciding to pour the second half of the slab one and one-half inch higher because we couldn’t remove one large stone no matter how hard we tried. That was one of those frustrating, “I wish we would have thought of that earlier” moments.

After having a big set back on day one, nobody panicked. Tigard’s trip leader, Matt Rader, is the reason why. He led with a calm consistent drive. He didn’t push too hard and let everyone get the rest they needed, but he also didn’t let people get disengaged. If kids from the group were spending time with the family or other neighborhood kids, he let them, knowing the importance of building relationships.

By day four, the house was finished with time to spare. We were able to celebrate Cristian’s birthday with a piñata, balloon animals, and face painting before finishing the second coat of stucco later that afternoon. It was clear to me that the Holy Spirit was at work in every individual on that worksite. The joy and bonding that occurred in those four days are a testament to that.

When it was time to leave, the group had a key ceremony where they gave their blessings and presented the keys as well as other gifts that they brought from Oregon to make the house more of a home. Maria wept tears of joy as did I, Jose, Matt, Linz, and most of the group. Before we left, Maria made sure that each of us wrote our names on the wall studs in her home so she could remember us all.

Six weeks later, after receiving a photo-book that documented the build week made by Kathy Veerhuizen, one of the mothers from the Tigard group, I returned to deliver the gift with my dad, and Katie Haar. The three of us were on a mission to take professional-quality photos that Amor could use for marketing, advertising and other design needs. My dad was serving as the photographer, Katie (former Amor Team Member) was serving as our interpreter, and I was the driver. We ended up spending almost two hours chatting and laughing together with Maria and her children.

Casandra and Cristian showing off their books for the camera while they sit on their mother’s new bed that was given to them by a neighbor after their new home was completed.

Casandra and Cristian showing off their books for the camera while they sit on their mother’s new bed that was given to them by a neighbor after their new home was completed.

Maria shared with us that everything in her new home was given to her family as gifts since I had last seen her! They had been given beds, tables, a stove, chairs, a stereo that Erik has in his room, and even a big bag full of meat and other food that lasted them for several days! She also said that she has had many people, strangers who were passing by on the road, come to tell her how beautiful her house is. Maria’s face glowed as she shared these praises with us, giving all the glory to God. Before we left, Jose was able to come home and join our little reunion. We took some photos of the whole family and hugs were given all around as we left.

Matt Rader, me, and Linz: Los jefes de la semàna.

Matt Rader, me, and Linz: Los jefes de la semàna.

I am amazed at how God works in our lives. Jose and Maria are a shining example of the Lord providing for those He loves. Matthew 6:25-34 says, “Therefore I tell you, do not worry about your life, what you will eat or drink; or about your body, what you will wear. Is not life more important than food, and the body more important than clothes? Look at the birds of the air; they do not sow or reap or store away in barns, and yet your heavenly Father feeds them. Are you not much more valuable than they? Who of you by worrying can add a single hour to his life? And why do you worry about clothes? See how the lilies of the field grow. They do not labor or spin. Yet I tell you that not even Solomon in all his splendor was dressed like one of these. If that is how God clothes the grass of the field, which is here today and tomorrow is thrown into the fire, will he not much more clothe you, O you of little faith? So do not worry, saying, ‘What shall we eat?’ or ‘What shall we drink?’ or ‘What shall we wear?’ For the pagans run after all these things, and your heavenly Father knows that you need them. But seek first his kingdom and his righteousness, and all these things will be given to you as well. Therefore do not worry about tomorrow, for tomorrow will worry about itself. Each day has enough trouble of its own.”

Maria and Jose stand proudly with their three children, Erik age 14, Cristian age 5, and Casandra age 6, at their back door that overlooks the beautiful landscape below their colonia.

Maria and Jose stand proudly with their three children, Erik age 14, Cristian age 5, and Casandra age 6, at their back door that overlooks the beautiful landscape below their colonia.

I see now, after nine months with Amor, that this is what our ministry is really about: building relationships through acts of love. This family was already involved at their local church and they knew very deeply that it was because God loves them that He sent a group of strangers down from Oregon to their hillside in Tijuana to help them build their new home and become part of their family. Though not every group and family become so close, the underlying truth remains whether or not anyone acknowledges it; God loves us all more than we can understand. I love the way Amor Ministries understands this and creates opportunities for us to work out God’s love for us in our lives in a tangible way… by building homes, providing water filters, backpacks, school supplies, and food to those in need. Amen.

To read more of Andrew’s experiences in Mexico, check out his personal blog, druznuz.

10.01.2009 | Posted by: Jason

Aidan

It’s been 10 days and I still find myself thinking about him.

I was asked to deliver the sermon and lead a workshop centered on the message of my book Step Back from the Baggage Claim at David’s United Church of Christ in Canal Winchester, Ohio. I was sitting up behind the pulpit, looking out at the congregation, as the choir was singing a hymn. I was about to be introduced to Aidan.

In the middle of the choir’s melodious notes, small six year old footsteps began making their way down the center aisle. His cockeyed glasses, oversized acolyte robe and tennis shoes were a cute combination. He made his way all the way down the aisle, up the alter steps, and began bobbing and weaving in and out of the choir. He was looking for his mom and calling her out by name. The choir just kept singing beautifully.

Aidan located Rev. David Long-Higgins, co-Pastor of the church who also sings in the choir, and made his way over to him. David calmly bent down in the midst of the song and lovingly put his hands on his shoulders.

I later learned that Aidan has neurofibromatosis, a disease in which nerve tissue grows tumors that may be harmless or may cause serious damage by compressing nerves and other tissues in his body.

From my vantage point up near the pulpit, I had the perfect view of Aidan’s journey down the aisle and the looks on the faces of every single member of the congregation sitting in the pews. I watched as person after person had a smile stretched ear to ear as they gazed at Aidan with such joy. This was no interruption to their worship service.  This was a divine celebration rooted in gratitude and compassion.

As Reverend Long-Higgins shared with me, “He (Aidan) is the presence of God for me.  Unpredictable and filled with grace.”

I am still thinking about the warmth of that community as they embraced each of Aidan’s steps. May the unpredictability of your world this week be filled with grace.

Travel Gracefully.

Jason Barger, 11-time Amor leader and author of the book, Step Back from the Baggage Claim:  Change the World, Start at the Airport