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02.12.2010 | Posted by: Jason

What Do I Honor?

“What is honored will be cultivated.” – Plato

What’s important to me? Will the time I spend this week reflect what’s important to me? What kind of person do I want to be in this world?

This week, I was fortunate to have a friend pass me a link to a video from 60 minutes. For football fans, it is an amazing story about the small island of American Samoa in the South Pacific, it’s community, and amazingly, the number of NFL players this small island has produced.

But, as you’ll see, this story isn’t about football. It’s not just about good genes and it certainly is not about top of the line training programs. It’s about a community of people that honor determination, discipline, and humility. And in their cultivation of this spirit, they accomplish what seems unimaginable to most.

WATCH THIS:  “60 Minutes – American Samoa”

We can’t duplicate another person’s story, experience, gifts or challenges. We have our own story to live. However, what would it mean for my life to cultivate a spirit of determination, discipline, and humility as I work for my goals? Just imagine what kind of communities, teams, organizations, or churches we can build when we cultivate a collective spirit?

The Amor experience for me has always been a community of people rooted in God’s love – determined to cultivate that spirit in the world. When we honor that spirit and bring it to life in the world, the world is changed.

So, what will I honor today?

Travel Gracefully.

- Jason Barger, 11-time Amor leader, speaker, and author of the book, Step Back from the Baggage Claim:  Change the World, Start at the Airport

02.05.2010 | Posted by: Amor

Dear Friends: A Letter from Howie

Our groups often find themselves building for a family on a street where other families live in the same or worse conditions.  Overwhelmed and confused by the specter of poverty, they ask, “How do we pick the families?”  The pastors we work with are members of our Mexican Ministry Planning Board.  They live, work and pastor in the areas where we take our groups to build.  They know their people and the needs of the community.  When we give them a seasonal quota for the number of houses we can build, they bring in the applications for the families based on the greatest needs.  They pick the families as a Board so that we can be assured that we are doing the right thing.  At the same time, we are giving our pastors a meaningful opportunity to reach out to their communities in witness to the love of God.

Last month, one of our groups walked in on an unusual set of circumstances as told by their Amor Field Specialist, T.J. Putman.

“Sometimes our pastors will bump a family to the top of the list because of  extreme hardships such as a devastating fire or health and safety issues.  One week before Christmas, Pastor Ponce, the head of our MMPB, bumped a family to the top of the list.  Francisco, the 39 year old father of five, was in a car accident last April.  He was in and out of the hospital for eight months.  His wife, Silvia, regularly attended church. Francisco did not.  When Silvia called on Pastor Ponce, he started visiting Francisco in the hospital.  They became really close through the whole ordeal.  One wish/dream Francisco shared with Pastor Ponce was, ‘I always wanted to provide a house for my family.’  Pastor Ponce was able to share his association with Amor Ministries and give Francisco the peace of mind that his family would have shelter.

I showed up to build the house the day after Christmas with Abiding Hope Lutheran Church from Littleton, Colorado.  Step by step we learned the family’s situation.  I wasn’t aware of what was going on when we met the family on the first day.  The mother broke down in tears when she shared the story with the group.  I had trouble holding back the tears as I translated.  When the group showed up the doctors had given Francisco seven days to live.  His blood pressure dropped and he would slip in and out of a comma.  The family spent each day of the build at the hospital.  Francisco’s two teenage daughters stayed home to answer our questions about the house and to babysit the two year old daughter.

After three days of strenuous labor we got the house to a point where the family could move in.  We needed one more coat of stucco to finish.  As we were driving off after the third day, I saw Silvia and Francisco’s sixty year old mother, Francisca, walking arm-in-arm like neither of them could stand without the support of the other.  They came up to my truck with tears in her eyes.  She grabbed my arm and said, ‘My son died today.  Silvia is on her way into the house to tell the girls.  They don’t know.’

We drove off and I made some calls. I called Pastor Ponce and told him that the house was at a place where the family could move in and that we could come back the next day and finish it.  He went to visit the family later that night and explained everything.  The family asked Pastor Ponce to pass along this message, ‘This house is a gift from THE Father.  We want to be here with the group tomorrow.’  The group showed up on the last day to finish the house.  After laughing and playing all week nobody really knew how to act or interact with Silvia or her family.  They finished the house in a few hours.  Before the group left they met with the family inside the house to pray and to share the love of God.  Grandma Francisca told us the whole story about what had happened to her son.  She shared how much she will miss him, but she knew he was at peace with God.  He had accepted Christ the day before he died.  She gave each participant the most meaningful hug they had ever experienced.  I am amazed each and every day at how God works and saves lives.”

One of the group members shared how deeply they were affected.  None of them had ever met Francisco, but they all loved him through getting to know his family.  Praying with his family on the last day was an incredibly heartbreaking experience, but one of the beginnings of healing.  Even though the group had been here before on trips that were meaningful and life changing, this one was special.  It proved that God is not random, that He made everything line up so that Francisco could be at peace about his family having a place to live.  It proved how we can all be a part of His perfect plan when we open ourselves to His grace, His invitation to serve someone in need.  It also proves that we can’t always know how much we will impact the life of the family, the local church, or the pastors’ ministries for generations to come when we say yes to a mission trip.  We don’t just build houses.  We build hope.

Peace,

Howie

P.S.  I want to invite all of you to visit our web site at www.amor.org.  There you will find lots of exciting information about the work of Amor Ministries, including our quarterly newsletter, Matters of the Heart.  Learn about our work in the San Carlos Apache Reservation in Arizona, our South Africa mission trips, and our trips to Puerto Peñasco, a small fishing town on the Sea of Cortez, just south of Arizona.  Also learn about our 30th Anniversary Celebration Tour and many other ways to be involved with us and to support us. Thank you.

01.07.2010 | Posted by: Amor

“He knew he was needed, and he showed up.”

By Alyssa Robinson

They were a hard-working church of fellowship, building walls, a roof, and erecting the frame structure of a modest house before 9:00 a.m. on a sunny Saturday morning.  One man entertained himself and the group as he made cat noises while working on the roof, keeping the mood light-hearted and lively.

Who were these workers that, despite the danger painted by the media, showed up to build love and hope through a home?  For the first time in the history of Amor Ministries, a group of men from Tijuana came together to build houses with Amor Ministries.

Amor houses are usually built by Mission Trip participants from the U.S. and Canada. Earlier in the year, however, a group of students had begun building this same home but because of suspected drug activity in the area, Amor decided to reassign the group to a new worksite, leaving the house unfinished.  Instances such as this have occurred for decades in Tijuana, just as they do in every large city.  But because Amor has always valued the safety of its’ participant groups, they moved the young builders out of potential harm’s way.  Many never realize how seamlessly such situations are handled.

And so the projects were brought back to where they started, to the Pastors of the Mexico Ministry Planning Board of Tijuana. When Lydia Lozano, Amor’s Mexico Ministry Coordinator, met with the Tijuana pastors, she explained that the houses could not be finished.  After learning of the many Mission Trip cancellations Amor has faced this year, they offered to build the houses themselves, and providing themselves the perfect opportunity for their own churches to serve.

Undefeated, the pastors immediately gathered groups to start working.  The congregations of Tijuana jumped into action to serve the people of their very own communities.  Inspired by the Mission Trip groups who come to build and provided with the materials and resources supplied by Casa de Amor partners, the local church brought hope.

The men building this home were not looking for spiritual fulfillment nor were they changed by the sight of extreme poverty.  When one man was asked why he came to help, he simply responded, “My pastor asked me to.”  He didn’t second-guess the conditions or over-evaluate the possibility of danger.  He knew he was needed, and he showed up.

Out of the violence that has surrounded Tijuana for years, God has encouraged the local church.  The pastors’ desire is to continue to build in their communities, as well as have their youth work alongside the Amor groups.  Perhaps one day soon, we will see churches on both sides of the border working together to fulfill the Great Commission.

If you have a story about the impact of your Amor Mission Trip, we want to hear more!  Please reply to this post.

12.22.2009 | Posted by: Jason

Waiting

My five year-old son, Will, asked me yesterday, “Daddy, how long is it until Christmas?”  A question being asked to parents all around the world at this time of year.

“Two weeks”, I responded.

“But I don’t know how to wait”, he mumbled with the cute/innocent/anxious spirit of a child.

He was right. We often don’t “know how to wait” for Christmas. The season of Advent leading up to Christmas is meant to be a time of expectant waiting (the latin word adventus meaning “coming”). But in our anxiousness and uneasiness with “waiting”, we often fill our time dashing from place to place, checking off our ‘to do lists‘, and sprinting toward December 25th. Our style of “waiting” delivers panting breaths rather than peaceful stillness.

So, the challenge continues again this year – To set intentional moments between now and Christmas to slow down, embrace time with family and friends, give unconditionally, remember those in need, and reflect on our lives through a lens of gratitude. It’s in those intentional moments that our “waiting” dissolves and the true spirit of Christmas arrives.

Let the waiting continue…

“Blessed is the one who listens to me, watching daily at my doors,

waiting at my doorway.” – Proverbs 8:34

Jason Barger, 11-time Amor leader and author of the book, Step Back from the Baggage Claim: Change the World, Start at the Airport

11.13.2009 | Posted by: jon

With a little inspiration…

work boots covered in South African dustWe love that an Amor Ministries experience can inspire people on to great and creative endeavors. We stumbled across an instance of this recently.

Ann Bridges is an artist in the United Kingdom who accompanied her daughter and the rest of the Urban Saints crew to South Africa in April to work with Amor.  She created some amazing works of art from her time with us.

Please check them all out and read about her experience by clicking here.

11.12.2009 | Posted by: jon

Oh, the great stories!

I found out a cool story from a recent Facebook thread.

These things need to be shared.

In 1996 a youth group from Salem, OR built a double house for the Lobatos family with Amor Ministries. Seven years later the father of this family, Jesus, joined our Mexico Ministry Planning Board. This is the group of local pastors who helps families in their communities receive homes and other resources.

To date 446 families have either had a home built or are in queue to receive one because of the recommendation of Pastor Jesus Lobatos.

The week a group of teens from Salem gave over 13 years ago is still having a profound impact – greater than one could have ever guessed. Thanks!

What is your story? Share it with us.

10.28.2009 | Posted by: Amor

Thoughts on Puerto Peñasco

A Mission Trip leader shares his thoughts…

In evaluating our recent trip to Puerto Peñasco, Sonora, Mexico, some thoughts have gone through my mind as to why we go on the Amor Mission Trip anyway.

My 16 year old son, who plays football, brought home his helmet to adjust. On the back of the helmet I noticed a warning label which included some intense cautions. “Keep your head up–Don’t spear with this helmet…failure to follow these rules can result in severe neck injury, paralysis, brain trauma or fatal brain injury.” These warnings were followed by a capitalized statement that said: “IF YOU WANT TO AVOID THESE RISKS, DO NOT ENGAGE IN THE GAME OF FOOTBALL.”

Likewise, there are risks involved in a mission trip to Mexico. But weighing the risks against the benefits of building God’s Kingdom keeps me wanting to do more. I understand the dynamics of working with the parents of students and I must honor their wishes when it comes to caring for their children. The safety of our students is priority. Challenging our students and teaching Christ’s mandate to be witnesses around the world requires constant tension.

This year, the violence continued to raise major unease in Juarez. Our parents expressed their concern for safety issues. In discussion with Amor, they opened up the opportunity to go to Puerto Peñasco. Most of our parents were excited about the opportunity and felt comfortable with the change. The change of location proved to be an awesome opportunity to serve our neighbors. The poverty issues were much the same. Unemployment at 70% as the tourism based economy was hit hard by the travel warnings, Puerto Peñasco is in desperate need of the church’s help. We can be tools of His Kingdom assisting the local church to meet the ever present needs surrounding them.

Amor is making a major impact on this city through the local church – and the community is eager to be involved also. Ministry opportunities are plentiful in this city. We were able to visit a couple of the local church ministries including a free health clinic and a radio station. Other ministries include food pantries, clothing banks, children’s programs, etc. We wish we could have gotten more involved in them, but time did not permit on this trip.

Yes, there are risks involved! But at no time did I even feel any danger while on this trip. The border crossing was uneventful. The Church and the community welcomed us with open arms. It was hot! (That may be a slight understatement!) We worked from 6-12 in the mornings and just a couple hours in the evenings to complete the houses in plenty of time. Some did get sick with the flu (we brought along with us) and the heat was a challenge. Along with this, the usual smashed thumbs, minor cuts, blisters, sunburns and bruises persisted.

My point: IF YOU WANT TO AVOID THESE RISKS, STAY HOME! “As for me and my house, we will serve the Lord!”

Steve

10.21.2009 | Posted by: jon

Feast On Your Life

It’s not easy to slow down life. I’m as guilty as anyone. The normal ‘North American Sprint’ often becomes just the way we move in and out of everyday life. The hustle and bustle of family life, business, ‘to do’ lists, instant information in a myriad of media formats, and a fast-food culture can keep us racing from one thing to the next. In our racing from Point A to Point B, we can find ourselves moving into autopilot mode and losing small slivers of our true selves along the way.

I was first introduced to this poem through Parker Palmer’s book A Hidden Wholeness. Palmer shares these words as part of a slowing down process to connect back to “the seed of true self”. The poem is “Love After Love” by Derek Wolcott:

The time will come
when, with elation,
you will greet yourself arriving
at your own door, in your own mirror,
and each will smile at the other’s welcome,
and say, sit here. Eat.
You will love again the stranger who was your self.
Give wine. Give bread. Give back your heart
to itself, to the stranger who has loved you
all your life, whom you ignored
for another, who knows you by heart.
Take down the love letters from the bookshelf,
the photographs, the desperate notes,
peel your own image from the mirror.
Sit. Feast on your life.

Today, in the midst of a racing world and plenty of bags that we think we ought to claim, I hope to give myself a few minutes to slow down and feast on my life. Somehow I know this will deliver more wholeness to the journey between Point A and Point B.

“But Jesus often withdrew to lonely places and prayed.” – Luke 5:16

Travel Gracefully.

Jason Barger, 11-time Amor leader and author of the book, Step Back from the Baggage Claim:  Change the World, Start at the Airport

10.02.2009 | Posted by: Amor

Finding Family in Far Away Places: The Story of the Barrasa Alvarez Tigard Family

I looked down the thirty-foot slope of dirt and rock, I saw six-year-old Casandra looking up at me from the doorway of her families two month old home. I waved with a grin on my face. “Hola!” I said. She smiled and her eyes widened as she scrambled inside to get her mother. I was greeted at the front door with a big hug from Maria. She has a way of smiling with her whole face, full of love. Excited, Maria invited us in to see what she had done with her home.

Jose and Maria’s beautiful double house custom built with a step down slab to accommodate for a large, immovable stone.

Jose and Maria’s beautiful double house custom built with a step down slab to accommodate for a large, immovable stone.

The week of July 20th, I had the blessing of leading an eager crew from Tigard Christian Church in Tigard, Oregon up the rough and windy, dirt road to Jose and Maria Barrasa Alvarez’s property in the community of Colinas del Florido. They live on the east side of Tijuana out in the hills near the Amor Ministries main camp. We would be building a double house (22’x22’) for their family of five who were currently living in a one-room plywood shack. Their little stove was about one foot away from Jose and Maria’s bed, and every time it rained, water would wash down the steep hill that their property is on, under their walls, and across the dirt and rock floor of their home. Not an ideal place to raise three children of 14, six, and five years of age.

From the road where we parked our vehicles, their existing structure was about 100 feet up a precarious slope of dirt and small stones. Further up the hill was a flat area that Jose built to accommodate there new home. Because of the grade of their property, Jose had to build a wall that was approximately ten feet tall out of stones that he broke out of the mountain with a sledge and steel rod. He told me it took him six months to build the wall by himself and that his family had been waiting about eight months or so to receive an Amor house.The next four days were characterized by hard work, patience, and lots of quality-time shared by the family and the Tigard crew. Helping me that week was Linz Snyder, a Nexus intern, who led the way in befriending and engaging the Barrasa Alvarez family.

This is the system we created to move all of our sand and gravel down the 30 foot slope on slab day! Just one of the obstacles we overcame that week. I called it the via rapida after a road in TJ.

This is the system we created to move all of our sand and gravel down the 30 foot slope on slab day! Just one of the obstacles we overcame that week. I called it the via rapida after a road in TJ.

On the first day, we spent hours trying to break stones that were elevating the back edge of the form. We ended the day with half of the slab poured and the second half of the form not quite finished. We ended up deciding to pour the second half of the slab one and one-half inch higher because we couldn’t remove one large stone no matter how hard we tried. That was one of those frustrating, “I wish we would have thought of that earlier” moments.

After having a big set back on day one, nobody panicked. Tigard’s trip leader, Matt Rader, is the reason why. He led with a calm consistent drive. He didn’t push too hard and let everyone get the rest they needed, but he also didn’t let people get disengaged. If kids from the group were spending time with the family or other neighborhood kids, he let them, knowing the importance of building relationships.

By day four, the house was finished with time to spare. We were able to celebrate Cristian’s birthday with a piñata, balloon animals, and face painting before finishing the second coat of stucco later that afternoon. It was clear to me that the Holy Spirit was at work in every individual on that worksite. The joy and bonding that occurred in those four days are a testament to that.

When it was time to leave, the group had a key ceremony where they gave their blessings and presented the keys as well as other gifts that they brought from Oregon to make the house more of a home. Maria wept tears of joy as did I, Jose, Matt, Linz, and most of the group. Before we left, Maria made sure that each of us wrote our names on the wall studs in her home so she could remember us all.

Six weeks later, after receiving a photo-book that documented the build week made by Kathy Veerhuizen, one of the mothers from the Tigard group, I returned to deliver the gift with my dad, and Katie Haar. The three of us were on a mission to take professional-quality photos that Amor could use for marketing, advertising and other design needs. My dad was serving as the photographer, Katie (former Amor Team Member) was serving as our interpreter, and I was the driver. We ended up spending almost two hours chatting and laughing together with Maria and her children.

Casandra and Cristian showing off their books for the camera while they sit on their mother’s new bed that was given to them by a neighbor after their new home was completed.

Casandra and Cristian showing off their books for the camera while they sit on their mother’s new bed that was given to them by a neighbor after their new home was completed.

Maria shared with us that everything in her new home was given to her family as gifts since I had last seen her! They had been given beds, tables, a stove, chairs, a stereo that Erik has in his room, and even a big bag full of meat and other food that lasted them for several days! She also said that she has had many people, strangers who were passing by on the road, come to tell her how beautiful her house is. Maria’s face glowed as she shared these praises with us, giving all the glory to God. Before we left, Jose was able to come home and join our little reunion. We took some photos of the whole family and hugs were given all around as we left.

Matt Rader, me, and Linz: Los jefes de la semàna.

Matt Rader, me, and Linz: Los jefes de la semàna.

I am amazed at how God works in our lives. Jose and Maria are a shining example of the Lord providing for those He loves. Matthew 6:25-34 says, “Therefore I tell you, do not worry about your life, what you will eat or drink; or about your body, what you will wear. Is not life more important than food, and the body more important than clothes? Look at the birds of the air; they do not sow or reap or store away in barns, and yet your heavenly Father feeds them. Are you not much more valuable than they? Who of you by worrying can add a single hour to his life? And why do you worry about clothes? See how the lilies of the field grow. They do not labor or spin. Yet I tell you that not even Solomon in all his splendor was dressed like one of these. If that is how God clothes the grass of the field, which is here today and tomorrow is thrown into the fire, will he not much more clothe you, O you of little faith? So do not worry, saying, ‘What shall we eat?’ or ‘What shall we drink?’ or ‘What shall we wear?’ For the pagans run after all these things, and your heavenly Father knows that you need them. But seek first his kingdom and his righteousness, and all these things will be given to you as well. Therefore do not worry about tomorrow, for tomorrow will worry about itself. Each day has enough trouble of its own.”

Maria and Jose stand proudly with their three children, Erik age 14, Cristian age 5, and Casandra age 6, at their back door that overlooks the beautiful landscape below their colonia.

Maria and Jose stand proudly with their three children, Erik age 14, Cristian age 5, and Casandra age 6, at their back door that overlooks the beautiful landscape below their colonia.

I see now, after nine months with Amor, that this is what our ministry is really about: building relationships through acts of love. This family was already involved at their local church and they knew very deeply that it was because God loves them that He sent a group of strangers down from Oregon to their hillside in Tijuana to help them build their new home and become part of their family. Though not every group and family become so close, the underlying truth remains whether or not anyone acknowledges it; God loves us all more than we can understand. I love the way Amor Ministries understands this and creates opportunities for us to work out God’s love for us in our lives in a tangible way… by building homes, providing water filters, backpacks, school supplies, and food to those in need. Amen.

To read more of Andrew’s experiences in Mexico, check out his personal blog, druznuz.

09.30.2009 | Posted by: AndyLyde

Being open about our differences can promote community

Within the walls of Amor Ministries, we celebrate the diversity of our team. In the spirit of iron sharpening iron, we intentionally meet to talk about divisive issues within the Church and society as a whole. The goal is to learn from each other, walk away with a better understanding and deeper respect of our differences, and achieve a heightened sense of  common ground. The topics we discuss are drawn from recent news articles. Please take a moment to tell us what you think about any or all of these topics.