“Don’t judge each day by the harvest you reap, but by the seeds you plant.”

- Robert Louis Stevenson (1850-1894)

My oldest son, Will, is almost six years old and he loves planting seeds. He thought the exercise they did at school where they planted the small seeds in the little cup was very cool. He’s carried that over into planting seeds in our back yard.

I’m not quite sure what age it is when we begin to forget about the seeds and become focused primarily on what is blooming above the surface. But over time, in our fast-food culture and instantaneous world of communication, it’s almost hard to imagine anything taking “that much time.”

So, in the “get things done” spaces in our lives, our longer-term vision gets blurred by the demand for instant results. We often find ourselves racing from place to place, meeting to meeting, deal to deal – seeking instant closure and gratification. We become impatient and look for the quick-fix solutions in our relationships, our careers, and our pursuits. We somehow get tricked into thinking we can bypass the growing process and jump right to the harvest.

However, what if we could ‘Step Back’, slow ourselves down today, and turn our attention from the harvest back to the seeds? What if we could focus intentionally on planting positive seeds in our relationships, our families, and our work? What if we could plant seeds and then shift our attention to nurturing and cultivating those particular seeds?

I’m not nearly the planter Will is, but I can’t help but think that purposeful approach may improve the overall quality of our harvest in the long run. So, what seeds will I choose to plant today along my path? What seeds will you plant along yours?

“I chose you and appointed you to go and bear fruit – fruit that will last.”

- John 15:16

Travel Gracefully.

Jason Barger, 11-Time Amor leader and creator of the “Step Back from the Baggage Claim” Movement

“What is honored will be cultivated.” – Plato

What’s important to me? Will the time I spend this week reflect what’s important to me? What kind of person do I want to be in this world?

This week, I was fortunate to have a friend pass me a link to a video from 60 minutes. For football fans, it is an amazing story about the small island of American Samoa in the South Pacific, it’s community, and amazingly, the number of NFL players this small island has produced.

But, as you’ll see, this story isn’t about football. It’s not just about good genes and it certainly is not about top of the line training programs. It’s about a community of people that honor determination, discipline, and humility. And in their cultivation of this spirit, they accomplish what seems unimaginable to most.

WATCH THIS:  “60 Minutes – American Samoa”

We can’t duplicate another person’s story, experience, gifts or challenges. We have our own story to live. However, what would it mean for my life to cultivate a spirit of determination, discipline, and humility as I work for my goals? Just imagine what kind of communities, teams, organizations, or churches we can build when we cultivate a collective spirit?

The Amor experience for me has always been a community of people rooted in God’s love – determined to cultivate that spirit in the world. When we honor that spirit and bring it to life in the world, the world is changed.

So, what will I honor today?

Travel Gracefully.

- Jason Barger, 11-time Amor leader, speaker, and author of the book, Step Back from the Baggage Claim:  Change the World, Start at the Airport

My five year-old son, Will, asked me yesterday, “Daddy, how long is it until Christmas?”  A question being asked to parents all around the world at this time of year.

“Two weeks”, I responded.

“But I don’t know how to wait”, he mumbled with the cute/innocent/anxious spirit of a child.

He was right. We often don’t “know how to wait” for Christmas. The season of Advent leading up to Christmas is meant to be a time of expectant waiting (the latin word adventus meaning “coming”). But in our anxiousness and uneasiness with “waiting”, we often fill our time dashing from place to place, checking off our ‘to do lists‘, and sprinting toward December 25th. Our style of “waiting” delivers panting breaths rather than peaceful stillness.

So, the challenge continues again this year – To set intentional moments between now and Christmas to slow down, embrace time with family and friends, give unconditionally, remember those in need, and reflect on our lives through a lens of gratitude. It’s in those intentional moments that our “waiting” dissolves and the true spirit of Christmas arrives.

Let the waiting continue…

“Blessed is the one who listens to me, watching daily at my doors,

waiting at my doorway.” – Proverbs 8:34

Jason Barger, 11-time Amor leader and author of the book, Step Back from the Baggage Claim: Change the World, Start at the Airport

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It’s not easy to slow down life. I’m as guilty as anyone. The normal ‘North American Sprint’ often becomes just the way we move in and out of everyday life. The hustle and bustle of family life, business, ‘to do’ lists, instant information in a myriad of media formats, and a fast-food culture can keep us racing from one thing to the next. In our racing from Point A to Point B, we can find ourselves moving into autopilot mode and losing small slivers of our true selves along the way.

I was first introduced to this poem through Parker Palmer’s book A Hidden Wholeness. Palmer shares these words as part of a slowing down process to connect back to “the seed of true self”. The poem is “Love After Love” by Derek Wolcott:

The time will come
when, with elation,
you will greet yourself arriving
at your own door, in your own mirror,
and each will smile at the other’s welcome,
and say, sit here. Eat.
You will love again the stranger who was your self.
Give wine. Give bread. Give back your heart
to itself, to the stranger who has loved you
all your life, whom you ignored
for another, who knows you by heart.
Take down the love letters from the bookshelf,
the photographs, the desperate notes,
peel your own image from the mirror.
Sit. Feast on your life.

Today, in the midst of a racing world and plenty of bags that we think we ought to claim, I hope to give myself a few minutes to slow down and feast on my life. Somehow I know this will deliver more wholeness to the journey between Point A and Point B.

“But Jesus often withdrew to lonely places and prayed.” – Luke 5:16

Travel Gracefully.

Jason Barger, 11-time Amor leader and author of the book, Step Back from the Baggage Claim:  Change the World, Start at the Airport