It’s amazing what you can find on the Internet. As we all know, some is good and some is bad. For this post, I Googled the greeting, “How are you?” and came across a website called the How Are You Doing Project.
Basically, the website has an 800 number you can call and leave a message about how you are doing. The project is described as an “exercise in everyday empathy.” This website, in my opinion, seems to give people a false sense of empathy when they anonymously air their feelings in a message. It merely reinforces the belief that we are just trying to be kind when we ask, “How are you?” We don’t really want to know how someone genuinely is doing because it might ask us for some type of commitment.
Lately, I have wondered if anyone asked Jesus how he was doing leading up to the crucifixion and actually cared about how he was doing. Did Peter, James, or John sit down with Jesus on that final day to find out how he was handling all that was happening to him? Maybe their caring led Jesus to ask those three to keep watch. Even if they took the time to ask Jesus how he was, they couldn’t hang with the son of God; all three fell asleep. Honestly, I have to admit that I would have probably done the same, I would have fallen asleep as well.
Thinking of the lukewarm church in Laodicea, I have an image in my mind that at every service, people went through the motions of worship and asked each other, “How are you?” not really wanting to know. Lukewarm people probably don’t want to know how you are doing because you might actually tell them how you are, and that could require them to do something on your behalf.
Many of you have called, written, or emailed us at Amor Ministries to ask how we are doing. I usually respond with, “Do you really want to know?” I am going to trust that you do, and I will tell you how we are doing.
We have good days and bad days, just like anyone that is going through the challenges of the current economy, safety concerns of Mexico, and now the swine flu, which, by the way, isn’t as bad as the media made it out to be.
Every cancellation of a Mission Trip hurts. Our Mission Services reps have taken a beating by some of the things that have been said to them. The one that makes all of us the saddest to hear is, “We should take care of our own kind.” Scott and I heard that when we first started the ministry 29 years ago. Those people must have skipped over that perennial Bible favorite of the Good Samaritan.
Despite the difficult times, I want you to know that there is more good going on in the Ministry. We are experiencing team unity like never before. Efforts such as voluntary pay cuts and the Mexico Ministry Planning Board donating back their annual retreat money have allowed us keep of staff intact to this point. Most touching to me, individual pastors in Mexico raised money for the Casa de Amor house sponsorship program. I don’t have to remind you how little they already make. The pastors have been hit hardest by all of this because of commitments they made to families expecting new houses, yet they have sacrificed significantly in our time of need.
We love it when members of our National Advisory Board and Board of Directors consistently call with words of encouragement and e-mail us to say they are specifically praying for that day on our behalf. Others have written to say there is nothing that will keep them from coming, much like group from Bella Vista Church in Rockford, Michigan featured on their local ABC station.
Another encouragement came in the form of groups that redirected their trips this spring to Puerto Peñasco, some driving as many as 18 extra hours. I visited Peñasco several times during spring, and I met some pretty incredible group leaders. The list goes on and on. This is a shout out to all of you!
How are we really? Well, we are not at the point, nor are we even close, to the desperate end where Job found himself. We are trusting God in the present and with our future.
We do need your help, however. In the next week or so, you will be getting a letter from Amor Ministries asking you to stand with us during this difficult time. Your support is needed now more than ever. Without it, Amor could look very different as we enter our 30th year of ministry to the poor.
If you really want to know how we are, then email us or call us so we can tell you. And you can tell us how you are, as well. So, how are you?
By Gayla Cooper Congdon, Founder & CSO